1.1 T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tan v\u1ee1<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\nCh\u1eb3ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0, t\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p khi <\/span>t\u00ecnh y\u00eau dang d\u1edf<\/b>. M\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh dang d\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 day d\u1ee9t trong l\u00f2ng ch\u00fang ta su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. M\u1ed7i khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt c\u0169, k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u00f9a v\u1ec1. Ti\u1ebfp theo, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau xem qua <\/span>nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau dang d\u1edf<\/b>.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n
Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can\u2019t take it. Never say you don\u2019t love the person anymore when you can\u2019t let go.<\/span>
\nKhuy\u1ebft danh<\/span><\/p>\nL\u1eddi d\u1ecbch – \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n th\u1eed, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ni\u1ec1m tin. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi chia tay khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bu\u00f4ng tay.<\/span><\/p>\nB\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng vui.<\/span><\/p>\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u01b0ng ni\u1ec1m tin th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee1 v\u1ee5n.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng tay.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u1ea1i sao khi b\u1ebf t\u1eafc ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn 2 t\u1eeb chia tay m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t 2 t\u1eeb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua.<\/span><\/p>\nKhi anh \u1ea5y quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i th\u00eam g\u00ec, d\u00f9 cho \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u00ean nhau, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian y\u00eau nhau v\u1edbi anh ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra.<\/span>
\n\u2013 He turned around and looked right at me and said nothing, not even hi. It was as if the months we had spent together, the times I spent loving him just weren\u2019t important, as if they never happened.<\/span>
\nKhuy\u1ebft danh<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh tan, qu\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i nh\u1edb m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc c\u1ed1c. Th\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 v\u1ee1 c\u00f2n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111au v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gh\u00e9p nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee1 l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau.<\/span><\/p>\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn.<\/span><\/p>\nKhi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong l\u00f2ng ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ta n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 ra \u0111i.<\/span><\/p>\nTr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3. M\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ta l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau mu\u1ed1n chia tay b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00edu k\u00e9o b\u1edfi tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1edfi h\u1ecd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u1eb7t hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb v\u00f4 t\u00e2m v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\nKhi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tan v\u1ee1, ta m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/p>\nAnh b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c v\u00ec tinh ta tan v\u1ee1. \u0110\u00f4i vai g\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef n\u1ed5i tr\u00e1i tim em.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0n g\u1eafn, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i tim tan v\u1ee1, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u00e8u \u0111\u00f3, cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1c r\u0103ng long. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7u, cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t. Hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y.<\/span>
\n\u2013 Some hearts are broken and mended, others are shattered or torn, although it was never intended, for love is eternally sworn, I\u2019ve cried and prayed and pleaded, for that love to hold its ground. Hope was all I needed, and pain was all I found.<\/span>
\nKhuy\u1ebft danh<\/p>\nN\u1ed7i nh\u1edb ch\u01b0a nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 y\u00eau, l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 qu\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 xem nhau l\u00e0 hai k\u1ebb xa l\u1ea1. Anh \u00e1m \u1ea3nh em gi\u1eefa hai chi\u1ec1u nghi\u1ec7t ng\u00e3. Nghi\u00eang b\u00ean n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh b\u00ean kia.<\/span><\/p>\nKhi ta y\u00eau nhau th\u00ec n\u00f3i cho nhau nghe tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt. Khi chia tay r\u1ed3i, ta khai qu\u1eadt t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u1ec1 nhau.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau em r\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\nV\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf trong ch\u00ednh tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng s\u1eb9o nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i y\u00eau nh\u01b0 l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, ta m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 khi m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i ta m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m l\u00e0m sao.<\/span><\/p>\n1.2 Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 khi ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. \u00c1nh m\u1eaft h\u1ecd v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ta.<\/span><\/p>\nN\u1ebfu y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9 cho \u0111i th\u00ec nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i th\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\nM\u00e0y th\u00edch ai th\u00ec k\u1ec7 m\u00e0y ch\u1ee9. Tao th\u00edch m\u00e0y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tao.<\/span><\/p>\nEm kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean anh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u00ecn anh y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u1edb y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng\u2026 V\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u1edb kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a t\u1edb.<\/span><\/p>\nKhi y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i t\u1eeb khi l\u00ean ba nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i 3 t\u1eeb m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh v\u1ea7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u1edf t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u00e0 lo s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong tim m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eeba h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1eeba \u0111au kh\u1ed5, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng. T\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111a t\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ai hi\u1ec3u?<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n \u0111au, l\u00e0 \u00e2m th\u1ea7m nh\u1edb, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i mong th\u1ea5p th\u1ecfm, l\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u1ee9c ghen tu\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt ngu ng\u1ed1c. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u00edch th\u00ec v\u1eeba ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ed1n n\u1eafm ch\u1eafc th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf c\u1ea3 hy v\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u1eed m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? L\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eadu \u1ea5y l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 WiFi nh\u01b0ng t\u1edb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi pass.<\/span><\/p>\n1.3 Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi chia tay<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n\u0110\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ta th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea5c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ai \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. Ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 chia tay.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda. V\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda. Duy ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed5i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta gi\u0103ng bu\u1ed3m ra kh\u01a1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t li\u1ec1n, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean nhau n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean.<\/span>
\n\u2013 Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You\u2019re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can\u2019t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn\u2019t be.<\/span><\/p>\nM\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i duy\u00ean x\u01b0a.<\/span><\/p>\nN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n chia tay m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. R\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp theo, mang \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh chia tay nh\u01b0 bong b\u00f3ng bay gi\u1eefa tr\u1eddi. Ng\u1eadp tr\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1edb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng tay, ta \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00edu k\u00e9o.<\/span><\/p>\nH\u00f3a ra ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n, l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u00e0 chia tay r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1.<\/span><\/p>\nQu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169. M\u00e0 khi ta nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169, ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au l\u00f2ng n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng bao nhi\u00eau t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi chia tay ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f3c ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. V\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 non h\u1eb9n b\u1ec3 y\u1ebfu \u1edbt. V\u00ec n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp trong l\u00f2ng.<\/span>
\nNghe n\u00f3i anh y\u00eau em \u2013 Thu\u1ea5n Gian Khuynh Th\u00e0nh<\/em><\/span><\/p>\nB\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con g\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 chia tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai m\u00e0 h\u1ecd y\u00eau qu\u00ed nh\u1ea5t,<\/span><\/p>\nH\u00e3y h\u1ee9a \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169. \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean em. B\u1edfi v\u00ec em s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edd ra \u0111i n\u1ebfu anh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb.<\/span><\/p>\nY\u00eau, l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft \u1edf trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt, V\u00ec m\u1ea5y khi y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau? (Xu\u00e2n Di\u1ec7u)<\/span><\/p>\n1.4 STT ng\u1eafn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sau khi chia tay<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\nChia tay ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft y\u00eau. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\nTr\u00e1i tim c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, y\u00eau th\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3, kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nGi\u1edd hai ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. Ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t, quay b\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a l\u00fac m\u1edbi y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 tan th\u00e0nh m\u00e2y kh\u00f3i.<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u00e3 chia tay, xin em \u0111\u1eebng h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. Ly n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ed5 ra r\u1ed3i ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 v\u1edbt l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u.<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p n\u1eefa th\u00ec em s\u1ebd ra \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 cho anh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 mong r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn sau em s\u1ebd y\u00eau anh nh\u01b0 em \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng y\u00eau anh.<\/span><\/p>\nChia tay r\u1ed3i, ta c\u1ee9 ng\u1ee1 l\u00e0 m\u01a1. N\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0y bi\u1ebft th\u1ea5u c\u00f9ng ai.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac mu\u1ed1n qu\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u0169 \u01a1i, xin \u0111\u1eebng d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i tim ta n\u1eefa. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m \u1ea5y v\u00f9i ch\u00f4n theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng.<\/span><\/p>\nC\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1ecf r\u01a1i. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng xung quanh c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\nNhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac c\u1ee9 v\u00f4 facebook c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, c\u00f3 c\u00f2n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f4ng? Hay l\u00e0 \u0111ang vui b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\nN\u00f3 th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen r\u1ed3i. Th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh dang d\u1edf.<\/span><\/p>\nDuy\u00ean ph\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh r\u1ebd ngang.<\/span><\/p>\n2. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1eb9p<\/b><\/h2>\n
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\u0110\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc qua. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai v\u1eabn hy v\u1ecdng d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, v\u1eabn tin t\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, v\u1eabn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\nH\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i khi \u1edf ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea9y n\u00f3 ra xa.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 v\u1ecb tha v\u00e0 hy sinh.<\/span><\/p>\nCh\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t 3 gi\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u1eebng v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e0 y\u00eau sai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec y\u00eau sai m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tay tr\u1eafng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng.<\/span><\/p>\nQu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a em anh kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp tham d\u1ef1 nh\u01b0ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em anh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd tham gia.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u01b0, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt.<\/span><\/p>\nNgo\u00e0i kia, bao la th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng trong anh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh em th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\nTrai th\u00ec em kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu. Nh\u01b0ng em ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i anh.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/span><\/p>\n2.1 Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n\u0110\u00ea\u0309 \u0111a\u0323t \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c ca\u0301i m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi go\u0323i la\u0300 ha\u0323nh phu\u0301c, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e2\u0300n m\u1ed9t chu\u0301t can \u0111a\u0309m, c\u00e2\u0300n m\u1ed9t chu\u0301t lo\u0300ng tin va\u0300 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u0103\u0301ng. \u0110\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. V\u00ec sao?<\/span><\/p>\nG\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 duy\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ea3i qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh. M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho nhau. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y, ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh cho c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\nG\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 l\u00e0 ch\u1eef Duy\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111i qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nhau l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00f4i y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 may m\u1eafn thay ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng y\u00eau t\u00f4i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u01a1i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng tay th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ng\u1eebng quay \u0111i n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn m\u00e3i y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/span><\/p>\nH\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y, m\u1ed7i ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i \u201c t\u00f4i y\u00eau em\u201d. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u gi\u1eef h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau trong tim, m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean.<\/span><\/p>\nH\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f3 l\u00fac th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng em tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ng\u1eedi m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ean t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a em, nh\u00ecn em h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\nT\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\nAnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi th\u1ea5y em c\u01b0\u1eddi. Anh \u0111au kh\u1ed5 khi th\u1ea5y em bu\u1ed3n.<\/span><\/p>\nTr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 2 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00ec nhau m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/p>\nNh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh<\/b><\/span><\/p>\nDon\u2019t stop giving love even if you don\u2019t receive it. Smile and have patience.<\/span><\/p>\n( L\u1eddi d\u1ecbch: \u0110\u1eebng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho d\u00f9 ban kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. H\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn)<\/span><\/p>\n