{"id":874,"date":"2020-03-07T00:40:47","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T17:40:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hoclamgiau.vn\/?p=874"},"modified":"2020-05-26T22:02:27","modified_gmt":"2020-05-26T15:02:27","slug":"ky-nang-mem-trong-giao-tiep-ai-cung-phai-biet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hoclamgiau.vn\/ky-nang-mem-trong-giao-tiep-ai-cung-phai-biet\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 x\u1eed l\u00fd, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, linh ho\u1ea1t, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 trau d\u1ed3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"k\u1ef9<\/p>\n

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K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed , \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fac r\u00fat qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u01a1n khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp\u201d<\/i>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

2. <\/strong>T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b><\/h2>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ch\u1ee7 quan, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u1ea5u cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u1ecdc \u0103n, h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc g\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc m\u1edf\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n \u0111\u1eddi. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 l\u1ebd t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hi\u1ec3u sai, hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, suy ngh\u1ecb sai l\u1ea7m\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, gi\u00fap \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi do ch\u01b0a trang b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c \u00edt ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, e ng\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kinh doanh t\u1ed1t…<\/span><\/p>\n

\"su-quan-trong-trong-giao-tiep\"<\/p>\n

– \u00a0 L\u00e0m t\u0103ng v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. Khi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng, n\u1eafm b\u1eaft t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c giao ti\u1ebfp tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n…<\/span><\/p>\n

–\u00a0 Mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t gi\u00fap cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n

– N\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, t\u1ea1o s\u1ee9c h\u00fat v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b>, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf khi thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kinh doanh, mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qua nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb tr\u00ean, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng <\/b>m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. 10 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n n\u00e2ng cao k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b><\/h2>\n

3.1 S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/b><\/h3>\n

\"k\u1ef9<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Vd: C\u00f4 g\u00e1i : “Anh \u01a1i, da m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a em b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3.”<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “C\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o em b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ecf h\u1ed9p kem \u0111i em”<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f4 g\u00e1i: “Tr\u1eddi h\u1ed9p kem mua c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u l\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3, sao m\u00e0 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf.”<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n

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Em mu\u1ed1n anh l\u1eafng nghe em hay em c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

M\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0a ra suy ngh\u0129. Nhi\u1ec1u khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe hay c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ra th\u00eam m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp, s\u1ebfp than: “T\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh doanh s\u1ed1 d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y \u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea1m qu\u00e1.”<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n linh ho\u1ea1t theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u giao ti\u1ebfp tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n

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D\u1ea1, em c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 anh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng anh<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebfp giao cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean m\u1eebng \u0111i. Khi s\u1ebfp tin ai th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd k\u00e9o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean ch\u1ee9c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u giao ti\u1ebfp tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb nh\u01b0 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, khi em n\u00f3i th\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh s\u1ebd nghe em n\u00f3i. Khi t\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee3t anh n\u00f3i, em s\u1ebd nghe anh n\u00f3i. Em \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ch\u1ee9?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i th\u00ec b\u1ecb chen ngang. Cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn r\u1ed1t c\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ai nghe ai.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

>> Xem th\u00eam b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/a> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3.2 \u0110\u00f2n t\u00e2m l\u00fd trong giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin<\/b><\/h3>\n

\u0110\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed7i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t, n\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n gia t\u0103ng ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00e0ng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 tin th\u00ec t\u1eebng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.3 Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng minh n\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang<\/b><\/h3>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u1ee7a \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.4 T\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/b><\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau th\u00edch. C\u00f3 6 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, khi b\u1ea1n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ph\u00e1i n\u1eef th\u00ec y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.5 Bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/b><\/h3>\n

B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec3m chung gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. K\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 2 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung. D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.6 T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m<\/b><\/h3>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eadt kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.7 K\u1ebft b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n<\/b><\/h3>\n

\"Lu\u00f4n<\/p>\n

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Trong 3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ta, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fa \u00fd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra trong h\u1ed9i b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb h\u1ecd.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.8 R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/b><\/h3>\n

T\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n. S\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ghi \u0111i\u1ec3m trong m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.9 Ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 ng\u1eef \u0111i\u1ec7u khi giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b><\/h3>\n

\u00c2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1ea5n gi\u1ecdng \u1edf nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh t\u1eeb. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi gi\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u, s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i c\u00f3 ng\u1eef \u0111i\u1ec7u l\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp c\u00e1c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb r\u1ed3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.10 N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u<\/strong><\/h3>\n

H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef n\u1ed9i dung cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

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4. H\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"hoc-lam-sao-cho-giao-tiep-tot\"<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y xung quanh m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t \u201cc\u00f3 duy\u00ean\u201d, r\u1ea5t thu h\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cthi\u00ean ph\u00fa\u201d, nh\u01b0ng con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt. Ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5t.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1eady h\u1ecdc <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b> nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft t\u00f4i s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n:<\/span><\/p>\n