{"id":874,"date":"2020-03-07T00:40:47","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T17:40:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hoclamgiau.vn\/?p=874"},"modified":"2020-05-26T22:02:27","modified_gmt":"2020-05-26T15:02:27","slug":"ky-nang-mem-trong-giao-tiep-ai-cung-phai-biet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hoclamgiau.vn\/ky-nang-mem-trong-giao-tiep-ai-cung-phai-biet\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG"},"content":{"rendered":"
Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 x\u1eed l\u00fd, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o, linh ho\u1ea1t, t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b> l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 trau d\u1ed3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed , \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fac r\u00fat qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u01a1n khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp\u201d<\/i>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y d\u00f9 mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ch\u1ee7 quan, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u1ea5u cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u1ecdc \u0103n, h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc g\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc m\u1edf\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n \u0111\u1eddi. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 l\u1ebd t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hi\u1ec3u sai, hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, suy ngh\u1ecb sai l\u1ea7m\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, gi\u00fap \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0:<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0Khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi do ch\u01b0a trang b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c \u00edt ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, e ng\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kinh doanh t\u1ed1t…<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n – \u00a0 L\u00e0m t\u0103ng v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. Khi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng, n\u1eafm b\u1eaft t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c giao ti\u1ebfp tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n…<\/span><\/p>\n –\u00a0 Mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t gi\u00fap cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh y\u00eau m\u1ebfn, n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng.<\/span><\/p>\n – N\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, t\u1ea1o s\u1ee9c h\u00fat v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b>, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf khi thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c kinh doanh, mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/p>\n Qua nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb tr\u00ean, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a <\/span>k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng <\/b>m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Vd: C\u00f4 g\u00e1i : “Anh \u01a1i, da m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a em b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3.”<\/span><\/p>\n Ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “C\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o em b\u1ecb d\u1ecb \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ecf h\u1ed9p kem \u0111i em”<\/span><\/p>\n C\u00f4 g\u00e1i: “Tr\u1eddi h\u1ed9p kem mua c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u l\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3, sao m\u00e0 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf.”<\/span><\/p>\n V\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0 sau:<\/span><\/p>\n Em mu\u1ed1n anh l\u1eafng nghe em hay em c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n M\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0a ra suy ngh\u0129. Nhi\u1ec1u khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe hay c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u1eafng nghe.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n1. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/b><\/h2>\n
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2. <\/strong>T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b><\/h2>\n
3. 10 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n n\u00e2ng cao k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/b><\/h2>\n
3.1 S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o t\u00e2m l\u00fd<\/b><\/h3>\n
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